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The Ultimate Guide to Having a Threesome 

The Ultimate Guide to Having a Threesome

If you've already decided to invite a third party into your bedroom with your primary partner, you might assume that the toughest part is over. Except, now you have to sort out how to make sure everyone in your threesome is laughing, orgasming, and enjoying themselves to the fullest.

Who To Choose

You should choose your third companion wisely, it's more complex than just avoiding exes or best friends. Sexperts suggest that you find a single person in your bigger group of friends with whom you are not too familiar, but who would be welcome to a threesome.

On the opposite end of the spectrum, strangers come with no long-term attachments and can meet up for a night of flirty fun. If you're a couple looking for a third, swinger sites like AltPlayground.net are good places to start, where singles are avidly looking to join for a threesome.

Set Some Ground Rules

As with swinger parties, it is essential that you discuss and establish limits before the real sex between you, your partner, and the third begins. Once sex begins, you can be so turned on that you'll want to throw those restrictions out of the window, but establishing and sticking to limits will avoid the dreaded post-threesome regret.

It's also a great idea to put in place safe words so everyone can easily opt-out of an act or completely stop the threesome.

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How To Get Started

Plan to have more condoms on hand than you think you need. In cases of a threesome with a man and two women, he will have to take off the condom whenever he moves back and forth between each partner, otherwise, he exposes the women to the body fluids of each other that could contain germs.

And germs are not sexy.

For added sensations, lube, sex toys, and toy cleaning wipes should also be on the nightstand. You should also clean toys when passing them around to prevent spreading germs between partners.

While it's easier to say than do, experienced swingers recommend you not to overthink it. Start with a glass of wine or cocktails and enjoy the conversation with lots of flirtatious jokes and laughter. The host should take the responsibility of beginning the main event, though true chemistry will result in it beginning naturally.

Positions To Try

It should be relatively natural for the three-way itself. Whatever you like, just start moving, touching, and maneuvering. Take the lead or be led— as long as it feels natural.

A fun twist from boring missionary sex is adding another woman into the mix (Lovingly referred to as FFM). A favorite among swingers, the second woman straddles the man’s face, while the other woman rides him. A delicate mix of oral, traditional, and anal sex is the perfect cocktail for the sexiest threesome that you’ll want to tell all your bar buddies about.

Or have a woman lying on her back as she is lying on top of the other woman. Then, while the women enjoy each other, the man can have sex with the woman on top doggy style. (If you’re particularly cheeky, the man can go back-and-forth between the women.)

Another choice: Arrange in a circle and go down on one another. Classic Eyes Wide Shut scenario.

With so many places to touch, kiss, and hold, your hands and mouths should always be doing something.

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Focus on Pleasing Everyone

Remember, a threesome is pleasurable only if everyone thoroughly involves themselves in what's going on at the time, open-minded in attempting new activities, and not just attaching to one partner more than the other — unless that's a dynamic with which everyone is comfortable. It can sometimes be extremely stimulating when two partners decide to take care of one.

Check In with Your Partner(s) Afterwards

After they're over, threesomes can sometimes cause unwanted feelings to bubble up. Even if you discuss the possibility of jealousy in advance, things may shift once you're in the middle of a threesome...literally.

Later on, talk to your partner about how you both felt and whether it was a complete bust or something you would like to do again. Swapping highlights is a fantastic way to discover different ways to please one another, too. A bonus is that it’s super sexy to hear your partner recount their experience in the threesome.

Also, don't just restrict the discussion to only your primary partner. Try to check in with your third partner as well, particularly if they're a friend. Make sure that they are still comfortable and between the three of you there is no awkwardness or hurt feelings.

There's also the possibility of a repeat experience so keep an open mind and everyone involved in the conversation.

So now that you know how to have the most sensual threesome experience, time to find someone to have one with. Head on over to AltPlayground.net to find attractive couples and singles to find the missing piece (or pieces) to make your threesome rendezvous complete.

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2 Comments

  1. Shufflehound

    It works I tell ya! 🙂

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