Nowadays, we’re more and more willing to discuss our sex life out in the open—or at least own up to fantasies in our private lives. Taboos are weakening, social expectations are shifting, and we are more likely than ever to find new ways to spice up our sex lives.
Try a Little Ropeplay
From improvised tools like neckties to more extreme bondage scenarios involving rope, cuffs, and chains, the idea of being bound (or binding someone else) is incredibly hot for many people.
Without being able to move, you are vulnerable to the advances of a lover, whether they include pleasure, pain, or both.
Try Sensory Deprivation
Blindfolds are an effective way to explore this route. Wearing one will keep you blissfully unaware of what your lover is about to do with you. And putting one on someone else will help you keep your power and mystique over them.
It can also be fun to add noise-cancelling headphones if you want to keep someone on their toes.
A Little Exhibitionism Never Hurt
Showing off can be incredibly sexy, particularly if you're as excited about their eyes watching as they are. Perhaps you're fantasizing about stripping for a lover or masturbating for an awed audience.
Or Watch Someone Else
On the flip side, it can be a massive turn-on to watch other people get it on.
You could imagine watching a couple having sex at a party or a boundary-pushing BDSM scene in a dungeon. There are so many possibilities.
Add Another Person or Two
Threesomes, foursomes, and "moresomes" put a new spin on sex which could explain why over half of women fantasize about these ambitious scenarios.
They may go better in fantasy than in reality, but if your attention is grabbed by a group-sex fantasy, it might be worth it.
Roleplay During Sex
If you're struggling to let your inner vixen loose, imagining yourself in a particular role can sometimes help.
It's kind of like getting it on with your hot professor. Or does a nurse-and-patient fantasy turn the gears? How about assistant and boss? There are nearly endless possibilities.
For more ideas, read our post on What Sexual Fantasies Can Improve Your Relationship. Check out APG.net to find sexy couples and singles eager to help you liven up your sex life with these sexual fantasies.
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