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How To Dirty Talk to Your Lover
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How To Dirty Talk to Your Lover 

When we get naughty, we're all about heightening the excitement of seduction and expectation, and talking dirty can be a path to a whole new level of passion. The basis of effective (and enjoyable) dirty talk is the same as other aspects of a healthy sex life, clear and upfront communication about what you like with your lover.

Be Careful of Your Word Choice

Do not use warning flag words or clinical terms. Nothing's going to take the excitement away like thinking about volumetric blood flow to the genital area. You have to be descriptive. Specifics bring stories to life, so it's all about details to talk dirty.

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Location Matters

Do not talk dirty just anywhere a person is likely to be criticized (like in front of friends). Learning how to talk dirty requires expressing fantasies in a safe setting, so it is important to establish an atmosphere.

Timing is Important

Do not include dirty talk too early, like with a total stranger or someone who has not shown you signs that they are open to it. Use misinterpretation for that purpose. Subtlety, manipulating words and cleverness go a long way.

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You're meant to talk dirty because you're in the mood and think so, not when someone asked you to. While you're at it, be mindful of the reaction to your comments from the other person. If you get a stoplight from the person you are with, accept it.

Repetition, Repetition

If you're in the heat of the moment and land on a phrase that turns them on, repeating it can give you great sexual energy. Something as basic as "Yes! Yes! Yes!" may make you sound wild for them.

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Make It All About Them

If you're in the heat of the moment and land on a phrase that turns them on, repeating it can give you great sexual energy. Something as basic as "Yes! Yes! Yes!" may make you sound wild for them.

Take the Dirty Talk Outside the Bedroom

To create suspense, introduce the dirty talk that you enjoy to notes, private texts, and whispered public conversations. Don't be afraid to sound dumb or too filthy. We always love the feeling that our lover is enthusiastic enough to get them to give up all other emotions.

Do Some Reading

Try a few new dirty words. Erotic fiction is a great place to find new vocabulary to add to foreplay, while porn videos tend to be somewhat low on decent and believable conversation.

 

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